Nine avoid married life

quarrel between husband and wife do not fear life are very few, well saying goes: civility is a friend, talk to me I'm a lover, quarreling husband and wife, the old old wife have this experience. However, to ensure that no damage to marital relations, without prejudice to family life, between husband and wife should have eight bogey:



First, avoid excluding weight: sweat the small stuff is also unwilling to compromise, making noises. The results also argue that it is also noisy, noisy once again hurt the feelings of lose the greater is the basis of marital relationship exists between the gradual disappearance of the little things between husband and wife should be forgiving, more consultations on major events to avoid conflicts occur.




Second, avoid transformation of each other: the other side by touch in his yard carving to do everything according to my ideas, not to my intention to Buyiburao, argued. Character proved an old married couple, living habits are stereotypes, change is hard, the other couples should be allowed to maintain their own characteristics and personality, and learn from each other's strengths in each other to achieve coherence.



Third, avoid the liquidation of history: each noisy aircraft regarded each other in the past the to prove himself right, the other's mistakes. This will not only not conducive to solving current problems, but also to the other party to leave, A hundred more harm than good.



Fourth, avoid the words never Liu Yudi: change, I will not name *** out. This will not only not conducive to the other party to correct the error, is not conducive to ease Mao Dun, but also placing themselves in a passive position.



V. avoid implicating his family: some husband and wife, the other's parents, brothers, sisters roll in, so easy to hurt family, easier to prevent contradictions complex.



six, avoid punishment by the other side of life: some husband and wife quarrel, in sexual life to do not match, and even shut out, which not only hurt each other's self-esteem, but also hurt the basis of marital relations.



seven, avoid the use of force begins to hit: between husband and wife of household chores, to mouth not his fists, Even if the major use of force is difficult to work. Hands beat both flesh and hurt the feelings of hurt, but also increased the difficulty of solving the problem.



eight, avoid mutual suspicion between husband and wife, based on hearsay evidence. It is like holding the couple's feelings a handful of sand, loosely holding, it would not be missed, the more tightly you hold it the more leakage. Couples, such as moderate to grasp the hands of the kite. Everyone should have their own space. Remember: keep a distance only beauty! If there was really found each other clues, first look at where they are wrong, look at each other is not in the nature of the fault. To stabilize the development of the situation calm, wife relationship in a hundred years of cultivation.


nine, avoid lightly divorce: a contradiction mouth hanging divorce took place, which will not only make people feel the threat of divorce, but also unsympathetic to the other party to leave the impression. Over time, the marriage will eventually lead the break.




last advise all your friends, try not to quarrel between husband and wife, between husband and wife won the reason no one can afford to lose feeling lost, so regardless of any conflicts occur must maintain a tolerance.


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